Is Sexual Abuse by Women Less Likely, All Together, or Are Boys Less Likely to Report It?
Question by George McCasland – Dads Rights: Is sexual abuse by women less likely, all together, or are boys less likely to report it?
When I see examples of programs for teaching young children what is proper and improper touching, the perpetrator is always a man.
Since boys are more visual in their learning, could the lack of examples using women give them a false impression that only sexual with an adult male in wrong?
Further, is the societal attitude that the boy got LUCKY still prevalent?
Best answer:
Answer by nowyouknow
You make some valid points. Look at all the teachers who take advantage of young men who are their pupils.
And there is somewhat of a stigma attached to boys/men reporting instances of sexual abuse, especially if the abuser is perceived by others to be an attractive female.
Answer by Studier Alpha
I think it’s both.
Women connect sexually through emotions not so much visually so usually either:
a) They are nymphomaniacs who look for fine young specimens of male (always in their teens, of at least semi-adult physique)
b) They actually feel a deep connection with the boy, substituting him with someone else they felt a connection for (a long lost childhood boyfriend/brother figure?)
c) They wish to prove their sexual power by preying on younger people.
I could be wrong but hardly ever are the victims of female molesters actual children.
Also, boys are less likely to report it because they’d be:
a) embarassed by the experience and confused
b) emotionally dependent on the perp, believing they’re deeply in love
c) threatened with a rape assault case because physically, they’re stronger then who do you believe?
Whatever the case, in education, it must be clear to the kids that both men and women are still capable of such acts however unlikely and NOBODY should touch such spots.
For your final question, I’m afraid it largely is. If the boy is of a sexually active age (say 16 onwards), usually unless you’re the parent or an adult or a teen brought up with more conservative values, you’d most likely think the guy is lucky because it’s an “experience”.
If however you’re still a child, thankfully, most people would still be outraged.
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